An opinion piece explores the emotional and psychological costs of being the most capable, reliable, and supportive person in one's social and professional circles, highlighting issues of self-neglect, over-functioning, and the need for personal boundaries and vulnerability.
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asking for help feels like weakness to capable people
The hidden cost of being the capable oneSpotted something wrong on this page? Report a correction.