A personal letter from Hera Lindsay Bird addresses the emotional tension between high expectations for romantic partners and the reality of average relationships in straight friendships, offering a nuanced, empathetic perspective grounded in queer experience and friendship values
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suppression of identity in romantic partnerships
Love, actually: ‘There are times when we can’t stand the sight of each other’futility of advising others' dating choices
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