A personal letter from Hera Lindsay Bird addresses the emotional tension between high expectations for romantic partners and the reality of average relationships in straight friendships, offering a nuanced, empathetic perspective grounded in queer experience and friendship values
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shared pain of dating mediocrity in young adulthood
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